From 10 to 14 March 2025, the Brother-Formators’ Gathering took place in Chiang Mai, Thailand. Attending the gathering were Brothers Philip Bancha, John Ong, Iñigo Riola, and Moris Tang. Together, they spent these days in prayer, dialogue, and fraternity. Each day was marked by moments of prayer and reflection, with the Brothers gathering for morning prayers and evening Mass, as well as engaging in discussions on topics related to formation and vocation ministry.
This gathering provided an opportunity for Brothers involved in initial formation to step away from their daily responsibilities, reflect on their experiences, and share concerns. It was also a time to renew their spirit for the mission of accompanying young men in initial formation. Br. Philip shared: “Having a retreat or time away from the community allows me to rededicate myself to the Lord and restore my strength.”
The sessions throughout the week explored significant themes shaping formation today. One key discussion focused on the impact of trauma on candidates and communities. It highlighted how personal experiences influence the discernment process and how formators can help foster healing and resilience. Another session examined how to connect and relate with Generation Z, drawing insights from data on the values and perspectives of young people. The Brothers also reflected on the essential skills and qualities needed for religious life, particularly in living within a community. Group sharing provided space for meaningful exchanges and reflections on these topics.
Br. John shared: “The reading materials used for group sharing were very relevant to our formation and accompaniment ministry. They made us reflect on the kind of formands we have, the issues and concerns they are facing, and the kind of formators and accompaniment they need.” Br. Moris also reflected on the gathering: “During the sessions, I was able to hear different perspectives on accompanying and guiding our formands. I also had the opportunity to share and learn about the differences between the traditional formation approach and the formation process for Generation Z today.”
This gathering not only deepened the Brothers’ understanding of the evolving needs in formation but also renewed their commitment to their ministry. It reinforced the importance of ongoing formation for Brothers, particularly for formators, ensuring they are well-equipped to accompany young people on their vocational journey.
